When I was young, I always felt like I was not really part of this world, that something prevented me from feeling really connected to others like I really wanted to.
I could not explain it to my parents, so I would ask them if I came from another planet or what !?
Deep down, I knew there was no problem with WHO I WAS really, as I was as smart and capable as the other kids. But somehow, it seemed like I didn’t have the codes of social life, that there was a hidden language that nobody had taught me.
It was often unclear to me if my friends were my friends. Many jokes eluded me. When people spoke in metaphors, I didn’t get it, or was slow to understand the ‘second degree’ and what they really meant.
I often wondered « what is wrong with me ? » or « will I someday really feel connected, or am I just too different ? »
Of course, I was fine, maybe even a bit better intellectually than the average. But I was not happy with just being the « smart kid ». I wanted friends, I wanted to connect and to have fun as simply as others.
I wanted to feel recognized, included, and simply to belong (even if I also wanted to keep my uniqueness, as I often thought most people were sheeps, I confess!)
Fast forward many years later, in 2011, as a way to better understand how my brain works, I decided to study psychology, and as I have a passion to help others, I then became a psychotherapist.
But despite being able to understand people and relate, I still felt this effort, this additional ‘barrier’, and felt like I was sometimes missing out on subtle body languages or indirect cues that people use.
Something was missing…
One day, my own therapist and supervisor looked at me and asked me…
« Have you ever felt like you were surrounded by a Wall of Glass, and looking at the world around you but not really feeling that you are part of it ? »
And I said « Yes! » with surprise, because these words seemed to resonate and describe what I had been trying to express for so long !
She then explained to me what her research institute had discovered… and it all made sense.
It wasn’t that I lacked the ability to connect—it was that an invisible barrier separated me from the world. I could see others clearly, and they could see me, but something disturbed the connection.
It wasn’t my fault. It wasn’t a deficiency. It was just a problem in mutual perception…
The Wall of Glass is an internal perception of being surrounded by an invisible barrier. You cannot « touch it » or « see it », but you know it is there because it makes you feel like you cannot ‘connect’ with others as deeply as you would like to.
The Wall of Glass is the representation of a difference of perception of human indirect language. It often creates a misunderstanding between people.
Though it is not the source of neuro-divergence per se, it is the source of a difficulty of the exchange of non-verbal information between different nervous systems.
See, explicit language is not the only way of exchanging informations between humans. But the wall of glass disrupts the other forms of subconscious exchange, thus generating in many cases feelings of separation, not belonging, misunderstanding, not being seen, etc…
> Because of it, other people have difficulties to feel and understand you too!
Here are some effects of the Wall of Glass (depending on people)
This invisible barrier separated me from the world. There was something between me and the world.
My therapist suggested I could do a simple therapy process to cancel its negative effects.
I was a bit skeptical at first because I had tried so many approaches before.
I had read books, memorized social scripts, even tried to imitate behaviors that seemed “normal.” No shame in that, but they always felt unnatural—like wearing a mask that never quite fit.
So I decided to try because I realized I didn’t need to change who I was
What I needed was a way to bridge the Wall of Glass—to find strategies that worked with my unique way of thinking, rather than forcing me into someone else’s mold.
Actually, it allowed me to share more of WHOM I REALLY AM with a world and, extraordinarily, to feel safe in doing so (and not vulnerable).
So I said « Yes! » to life and decided to try it.
Most importantly, all this happened naturally and effortlessly after the process
The results?
Now I feel a sensation of heart-to-heart connection when I talk to someone. It feels like a super-power compared to before.
All my relationships became more fluid, more satisfying, and less of a hassle.
Now, I can even enjoy talking about the weather with a stranger, which used to be soooooo boring before !
But the best part is how it impacted my dating life, my career, and my opportunites in life
Honestly, I didn’t really get flirting and seduction before. To say it has been turned upside down would be an understatement…
I have more friends than ever before, it is easy to make new ones, and… I WANT to make new ones ! Before, it used to be a hassle and I feared disappoitment all the time.
Nowadays, people often mistake and think I am extroverted, because I am really social and easy-going.
Being connected with people I care about is one of the greatest gift I ever received.
You don’t have to struggle in silence.
You don’t have to force yourself to fit into a world that doesn’t see you for who you truly are.
There’s another way—one that embraces your strengths, validates your experiences, and helps you break through the Wall of Glass and become visible to the world on your terms.
Are you ready to see what’s on the other side?
This process is done under my guidance, with over a decade of experience as a highly-skilled therapists.
It takes generally 6 to 10 hours to complete, done over several sessions.
We run the process through visioconference (Zoom or Skype) all around the world.
It is safe and has been tested for over 11 years.
The success rate is very high.
It is not invasive, and there are no side-effect.
We take the risk, you do not (see our pay-for-results policy).
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You are unique.
Neurodiversity is something to be celebrated. If there’s one thing that drives my philosophy, it’s helping creative, smart, and wonderfully strange people bring their uniqueness into the world with pride.
I believe society should evolve to better embrace neurodiverse individuals. But I also believe that connection is a two-way path—and anyone can build bridges. You, too, can create a bridge between yourself and the world.
The world deserves to experience more of your authenticity, and you deserve to be seen and valued.
Let’s build those bridges together.
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Gaëtan Klein is a psychotherapist from France with 13 years of experience with different trauma healing modalities and has helped over 3,800 people worldwide.
After realizing he had been living his whole life with the « wall of glass », he joined the Institute for the Study of Peak State, a global research network with the goals to provide new fundamental ways to improve people’s lives.
As a specialist of the Autism Spectrum Disorder, Gaëtan is now a leading force in spreading the word about the ‘Wall of Glass’ process and other discoveries in the field of psycho-biology.
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